The funny thing with self-sabotage is thatat first you really don’t notice that you are sabotaging yourself. Here’s an insightful guide to show you exactly how to recognise sabotage and how to best fight it. You’ll be a new YOU after going through this.
You need to break the cycle of negativity and trust in yourself. Everyone is different and each sets goals they are sure they can achieve. Don’t strive for perfection, it doesn’t exist. Don’t set unrealistic goals for yourself because someone else is doing it. Set goals that are aligned with your values and dreams. Trust in yourself that you will achieve them, even if now it doesn’t seem like it. You’ll learn and you’ll grow and will get to that point when you'll say you’ve made it.